Well, before I proceed to stage 2, one question keeps popping up.

‘Hey, Jeremy, how do I even muster up enough courage to do an opening?’

Here’s my answer. If positioning and framing yourself seem to fail you, what you have to do is to practise. Thats right! Practise going up to people - and one very good way I’ve found that works is this.

You need to set aside a couple of hours, 2 would be fine, to practise meeting people. During that 2hrs or so, heres what you do.

Step 1. Take a shower and make sure you smell nice and clean.
Step 2. Put on some colonge, nice clothes and take a breath mint.
Step 3. Head down to your weekly hangout, this could be a supermarket, a departmental store or even a coffee joint.
Step 4. Smile and say hi to everyone that passes by.

Thats it! This is the first baby step you have to take. It is going to be slightly uncomfortable but when you compare this do doing an opener, this will definitely seem miles easier - don’t you think?

Once again, get off that butt and head out!

Grand gestures on significant occasions

mark the passage of time.

but little gestures that sweeten the moment stop time,

allowing us to pause to express or receive love.

in that instant, we’re not going anywhere –

we’ve simply stopped in our tracks,

feeling the warmth of our loving connection.

took these pictures when sheryl was still in spore these are for u my dear girl.

the lovely girl
::cella:: ©

After a long 2 weeks with loads of breaks in between, I finally finished reading a book. The topic?

SEDUCTION

Woah!! Alright, alright… before you start pointing fingers at me and calling cella, heres why I picked up the book.
1) pure interest
2) to improve what non-existent skills I have with girls
3) ways to make cella fall even harder for me…

My verdict? “The Game” by Neil Struass ( hope I got it right) gets 7.5 out of 10!

It did satisfy the ‘interest’ part, it did improve my connection with girls, and for the last bit about cella, well you have to ask her to find out! *wink*

For the benefit of all you busy people, I have broken a 300-400pg book down into 4 simple steps! Disclaimer: These steps are not for the faint hearted. They require a fair amount of courage and cockiness. And, they WORK!

Step 1: The approach
Many of my female friends have asked me, ‘Hey Jeremy, how do you approach a girl? How do you pick up the courage and take the first step?’ Well, heres what I do.

Before I even open my mouth, I make sure my brain doesnt set me up for failure. What you have to do is to say very loudly and cheekily in your head, ‘ I’m going to have fun!’. If you still feel the nerves, the next thing you might want to attempt is to smile and remember the last time you had fun or you were super playful. What you are doing here is postitioning yourself in a super positive state and, at the same time, getting rid of any negative feelings that might hold you back.

Next, when you approach the person of interest, do a “notice, opinion and feeling” opener. For instance, you could say, ” Hey, I couldnt help but notice that you have the nicest earrings, necklace, sunglasses etc I’ve seen. It matches your eyes, hair, lipstick (your opinion) and it gives me a cheerful, happy, warm etc feeling!!

Or, a second type of opener you could use is the “pure opinion opener”. For instance, ‘Hey, I need a ladies opinion on something….’

There you have it. Step 1 of 4 for a quick seduction course! In all honesty, if you could take all of this and apply it to anyone you meet (not limited to members of the opposite sex), you’d be what experts term as a ’social magnet’.

What are you sitting there waiting for? GO GIVE IT A SHOT! And be amazed!

wheeee! go see our new header nice? NICE? i made it! *beams* spent loads of time but i felt sucha great sense of achievement when it was done
o! and looooooook at my pongpong! hes only a baby so pls be gentle with him when u visit! i love it when he rolls around in the mud.. prod him nicely a few times and he’ll do a roll for u!

ok i gotta dash.. peace out! >.

was supposed to be watchimg my lectures online BUT
1) my bro kinda busted the computer at home
2) boo couldnt open the file
3) my other computer doesnt have a sound card

bloody hell… forces of nature are at work preventing me from studying! What’s going on?

IF I CAN’T, THEN I MUST!

I’m gonna take a shower and start work…

btw, we’ve adopted a pet! just click on him/her to play! kinda cool…

laters.