-jam- seduction : breaking down the pieces

After a long 2 weeks with loads of breaks in between, I finally finished reading a book. The topic?

SEDUCTION

Woah!! Alright, alright… before you start pointing fingers at me and calling cella, heres why I picked up the book.
1) pure interest
2) to improve what non-existent skills I have with girls
3) ways to make cella fall even harder for me…

My verdict? “The Game” by Neil Struass ( hope I got it right) gets 7.5 out of 10!

It did satisfy the ‘interest’ part, it did improve my connection with girls, and for the last bit about cella, well you have to ask her to find out! *wink*

For the benefit of all you busy people, I have broken a 300-400pg book down into 4 simple steps! Disclaimer: These steps are not for the faint hearted. They require a fair amount of courage and cockiness. And, they WORK!

Step 1: The approach
Many of my female friends have asked me, ‘Hey Jeremy, how do you approach a girl? How do you pick up the courage and take the first step?’ Well, heres what I do.

Before I even open my mouth, I make sure my brain doesnt set me up for failure. What you have to do is to say very loudly and cheekily in your head, ‘ I’m going to have fun!’. If you still feel the nerves, the next thing you might want to attempt is to smile and remember the last time you had fun or you were super playful. What you are doing here is postitioning yourself in a super positive state and, at the same time, getting rid of any negative feelings that might hold you back.

Next, when you approach the person of interest, do a “notice, opinion and feeling” opener. For instance, you could say, ” Hey, I couldnt help but notice that you have the nicest earrings, necklace, sunglasses etc I’ve seen. It matches your eyes, hair, lipstick (your opinion) and it gives me a cheerful, happy, warm etc feeling!!

Or, a second type of opener you could use is the “pure opinion opener”. For instance, ‘Hey, I need a ladies opinion on something….’

There you have it. Step 1 of 4 for a quick seduction course! In all honesty, if you could take all of this and apply it to anyone you meet (not limited to members of the opposite sex), you’d be what experts term as a ’social magnet’.

What are you sitting there waiting for? GO GIVE IT A SHOT! And be amazed!