-jam- Got Balls?

Well, before I proceed to stage 2, one question keeps popping up.

‘Hey, Jeremy, how do I even muster up enough courage to do an opening?’

Here’s my answer. If positioning and framing yourself seem to fail you, what you have to do is to practise. Thats right! Practise going up to people - and one very good way I’ve found that works is this.

You need to set aside a couple of hours, 2 would be fine, to practise meeting people. During that 2hrs or so, heres what you do.

Step 1. Take a shower and make sure you smell nice and clean.
Step 2. Put on some colonge, nice clothes and take a breath mint.
Step 3. Head down to your weekly hangout, this could be a supermarket, a departmental store or even a coffee joint.
Step 4. Smile and say hi to everyone that passes by.

Thats it! This is the first baby step you have to take. It is going to be slightly uncomfortable but when you compare this do doing an opener, this will definitely seem miles easier - don’t you think?

Once again, get off that butt and head out!